Things i DONT recommend you do when doing findom (in my opinion)

Summary

Key Points

• —The speaker stresses the importance of keeping all Findom activities legal and based on mutual agreement to prevent potential legal issues. 0:39
• —Findom, or financial domination, involves individuals giving money for little to nothing in return, differentiating it from content selling where a direct exchange occurs. 1:21
• —It is strongly advised against creating legally binding debt contracts, as they can backfire on the dominatrix and cause significant distress for the submissive. 4:03
• —Instead, debt contracts should be purely mutual agreements, and if a submissive fails to pay, the recommended action is to simply block them rather than pursuing legal recourse. 4:03
• —Blackmail is strictly discouraged as it is illegal and carries high risks, even if a submissive requests it, due to the potential for severe legal consequences. 4:56
• —The only acceptable form of 'blackmail' is a pre-paid, roleplay scenario where both parties understand it is not actual coercion. 6:03
• —If a practitioner chooses to engage in a meet-up despite the risks, it is strongly advised to bring a male friend for protection, as a male is generally more capable of physical defense. 8:28
• —The speaker highlights that submissives who insist on meet-ups despite refusal, or become aggressive when denied, demonstrate the unpredictable and potentially dangerous nature of such interactions. 9:07
• —In-person meet-ups, including cash meets or shopping trips, are not recommended due to significant safety concerns such as stalking, harassment, assault, and the unknown intentions of the submissive. 9:16